OK, this is my situation.
I'm the girl of my relationship posting this thread. My SO and I are sexually active and have been for pretty much our entire relationship. He became sexually active in his first/ previous relationship as for me he is the first person I have been with. The problem is a while back he was interested in anal sex , I didn't mind the idea at first and we played around a little but due to hurting (hurting for me that is) during certain events he stopped pursuing the idea. It was never really thought about until currently when I had read some previous forums on the idea of anal sex and became very aroused. I thought and decided to give it another try. So I purchased some lube and informed him I wanted to try out the idea again and I think he was very aroused and pleased to hear this. So we were having sex (just decided to put it bluntly) and we decided to try anal, he was wearing a condom and we used lots of lube but the results were horrible. I was in pain, and both of us frusterated.
What I am needing to know is we need suggestions on how to warm up to being able to have anal sex and be pleasant and enjoyable for the both of us.
I really love him and as far as the physical aspects of our relationship I want to please him. So post away.
