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Tell her that you can't do this and tell her that you need to distance yourself from her. Set up very strict boundaries and cut all the ties so that you can recover.
She is not helping the situation with how she's acting, so tell her to stop with the pet names and everything else.
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Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice - which means: self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction - which means: the self as a standard of evil, the selfless as a standard of the good.
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