If I am having a massage as a prelude to having sex, I find it to be very sexual. If I am having a massage for therapy, my brain understands that it's all business, and I don't get aroused.
Think of it as like going to the doctor. They see you naked and touch certain private areas of the body, but you control your response, right?
Personally, I don't care if my massage therapist is male or female, because it's just business. I do find men give the best massages, perhaps due to upper body strength or hand strength.
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I think I'll procrastinate......in a little while.
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