Thanks Redgirl. We talked some more about it last night and we are looking at all the doctors in our area (there is quite a lot of them).
She still wants me to go with her, but I did make it clear that I'd leave whenever she wants me to.
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Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice - which means: self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction - which means: the self as a standard of evil, the selfless as a standard of the good.
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