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If SHE prefers a male gyno, then by all means she can go to a male gyno and I will be supportive of her decision COMPLETELY. But she does not. She's nervous enough as it is, and she wants a female doctor. So by bloody Satan' pink pantaloons we will find her a female doctor. Not because thats my preference, but because its hers. I'm not some chauvenist control freak. I DO NOT HAVE HER LOCKED UP IN A CAGE I SWEAR - HONEST.
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Do you know whats funny?
Ask your mother/grandmother if they had a choice between a male/female gyno. I'll bet you 99 times out of a hundred, they didn't have a choice.
If something needs to be done, do it.
There are going to be hundreds of thousands of things that you will not want to do in your life, though, you will do them because they need to be done.
I had this converstaion with my fiancee, when we first met; She wanted to go on birth control, but didn't wan to see the gyno. She didn't want a male doctor, she didn't want a female doctor. I reasoned with her that it just needed to be done, and what is there to be worried about? It's quick, and it's done to insure that all is well. ...and if you think that some guy is going to get off on your exam, well, peh, get your mind out of the gutter.
Needless to say, she made an appointment right after lunch that day.
-SF