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One of my friends (girl) has a friend that acts similar to what you're describing but not to the same extreme. She feels similar to how you feel. He makes her feel guilty if she doesn't talk to him everyday. Sometimes he says he's just going to end the relationship, stop being her friend because she doesn't know how to be a good friend, and misc. other crap like that. She's a religious person so he also plays that card quite a bit. Like your situation it is not healthy for either of you. He is far too dependant on you for his or your well being, and there is some kind of attachment he has to you that goes beyond normal friendship.
It's good that you're moving. In all honesly you're not helping this guy by allowing him to treat you this way, you're only allowing his co-dependant and harmful behavior to continue. You need to begin cutting off his ability to be dependant on you. You should prepare yourself for the possibility that he will make suicide threats once you are cut off from him. It doesn't sound like he did that the first time you backed off from him but it is a tendancy in situations like this.
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