Thanks for the replies.
st33lr4t -- yeah, you're right. He didn't have many friends. He just expects me to always be there when I cant be.
Aladdin - I am a female.
Hightheif - He knows I'm moving but I'm getting rid of my cell phone, I don't know what my new number will be and he has a reason to stay where he is right now. I'm moving pretty far away. So...the only way to contact me as of now would be the internet. Which I should be able to manage fine. It will be great not living in the same building as him.
I wasnt expecting anyone here to provide the "does he love you" answer...I just thought saying that he might could help illustrate the situation
But I'm glad to hear from someone that has had experience with anxiety attacks that these arent things that just come along with the package. Part of the reason I always felt so guilty is because I just thought it was something he couldn't help. Now I know better.
Mantus - you're right. Confronting him never helps anything. Like I said, I'm very glad I'm leaving.
Most of you guys said the same basic things. He needs therapy and I should get away from him. And I think you're right. I know it will be a huge burden off my back when I move....and I think it will encourage him to go out and meet new people (I think he did this last time I stopped talking to him).
The thing is, he's been in therapy this whole time, so I'm not sure how much that was helping. I just hope that he doesn't bring all these problems into other relationships, or else I don't see how he's going to stay friends with people. You just can't have that many rules to being your friend if you want to keep them around. ...and I can only imagine how an S.O. of his would feel
