He is taking you for granted. He is used to just being able to abuse you and you not going anywhere. You got to put your foot down. I know you want to be nice and supportive but have you ever considered that this might actually be making things worse for him? It’s obviously not making your life any better. He needs therapy.
I wouldn’t confront him. Those kinds of situations never lead anywhere. If all the previous fights never changed anything why would you think that another one is going to do the trick? You need to cut your ties and let him get on with his life so you can do the same. I think it would be best for both you of.
Good luck.
|