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Originally posted by Trisk
I need some help. WHat would you do? I'm moving in a month so I'm thinking that maybe I should just apologize and end on good terms with him so I don't screw him up even more. But on the other hand...there is so much shit I want to say to him. He is so aggrivating and I'm not so sure I'm being unreasonable.
And they think it's weird that I hang out with someone older than me. Some of them even think he might be in love with me. I always tell them that's rediculous but I don't see any other reason why he'd be so attatched and needy all the time. What do you think?
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Go through with yourmove and don't tell this guy where you went or give him your new number. Quite frankly, this guy needs very serious therapy and all you are doing is encouraging him to be dependant on you. Wish him well, give him the number of a good therapist and cut him off.
He has strong feelings for you for sure - whether those feelings are romantic or not only you and he can say.
Having dealt with severa anxiety attacks myself, I can safely say that is no damn reason to treat people the way he treats you. Hell, I made an effort to be nicer to everyone because I knew I needed support when I went through that crap. I have no sympathy for anyone who treats people the way you describe.