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Originally posted by Jim Kata
What's the best way to kill a woman's libido?
Marry her.
Or in this case be in a long term relationship. It seems everybody I know has been put on (pardon my french (why is that the term anyways?)) "pussy probation". Me, my boss, 3 of my friends, and it looks like a few people here. There must be some type of conspiracy.
Amen brother! I've read this and I still don't understand why this has to happen. I just think a lot of women figure they got you once you seriously commit or they "test your love" by taking away or severly diminishing your sex life.
Anyways....try talking to her. That will probably change her for a month or so, and then it will be back to another dry spell....so goes the cycle.
Yeah, I wouldn't worry until this is something that goes on more than 6 months or so. Then if you find sex is even less frequent and you can't deal then break it off.
Bottom line is that talking to her about it may help...it may not, but most likely will help you understand why you are on the pussy probation.
Talk to her...but dont' bring it up too often if the talk doesn't yield answers and it continues. The more you hound the more she'll pull away sexually. Have a talk once and let it drop and just be a bf and do the things you were doing before. If she comes around she'll do it on her own.
P.S. I know not everyone is like this, but thats how it is with some of the people I have talked to about this subject.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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