Hey,
I've been dating this girl for about a month. At first things were great, she was tons of fun to be around and seemed to be happy.
Recently she's been acting different. Not as happy, and just generally not as fun to be around. She used to stay at my place till 3 a.m.ish, now when she comes over she usually leaves by 11 p.m. I have a cushy office job in my dorm - she used to come see me just about the second I got there... now, if she comes to see me it might be half way into a six hour shift.
Once we started having sex, she was tons of fun in bed. We live in the same dorm so we have lots of contact witheachother. We used to spend most of the day together, and would go down oneachother (if we weren't having sex) often. Now, she seems to be discusted in the thought of it.
I know she takes 2 different drugs for depression. I've asked her several times what's up... she just advoids the topic.
I don't presure sex, but it is a big deal to me...
She'll say things like "I'm the worst girlfriend because I'm holding out on you" and "You're the best thing that's happened to me". But she doesn't know why she does it.
She told me early on in our relationship that she always sabitoges her relationships.
What should I do about all this?
Edit: I forgot to mention that she had a yeast infection. Since she doesn't have a car, I took her to get some medicine. That was about 5 or six days ago... I understand not being able to have sex at all during this time. But at one point during this time we were cuddeling on my bed and I asked if she would go down on me... she said "I can't"
I don't want it to sound like all I care about is geting laid. I do care about her and want her to feel better. But on the other hand I can't deny my desires and her seemingly changes attiduteds towards sex.