maleficent

Well, first off, pulling her into the bedroom isn't good for either of you.

Have you tried talking to her, before you get undressed, before you pull her into the bedroom, find out what her issues with intimacy are?

I dated a guy once who thought he was the most romantic person in the world, I thought he was an idiot, not saying that you are an idiot, but perceptions are different. What you think you are doing, is not what she thinks you are doing.

Ask her what she thinks. Ask her what she likes.

Two years is a long time to be in this situation, are you sure you want to really stay with her? Sexual compatibility is important.

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