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bookerV · 07-22-2004, 11:47 AM

When I was 17 I hooked up with a 27 year old. It was just a fling though, since she was a hot older woman I had much fun stuff to learn. We both knew it was just a sec romp and nothing more though so that helped to keep the boundaries definied. For me at that time the age gap was way too much.

As for now I am 24 and am currently getting together with a 20 year old (she was 19 when we first started dating). Usually that age gap is too much for me since the differences in lifestyle are huge, but she is incredibly mature for her age and pretty much at the same stage in life that I am at as far as relationships go.

So all in all I think what really matters is that you are both REALLY clear on what you want / what you expect from each other / and that you're at the same stage in life.

07-22-2004, 11:47 AM	#27 (permalink)
bookerV Addict Location: Ontario, Canada	When I was 17 I hooked up with a 27 year old. It was just a fling though, since she was a hot older woman I had much fun stuff to learn. We both knew it was just a sec romp and nothing more though so that helped to keep the boundaries definied. For me at that time the age gap was way too much. As for now I am 24 and am currently getting together with a 20 year old (she was 19 when we first started dating). Usually that age gap is too much for me since the differences in lifestyle are huge, but she is incredibly mature for her age and pretty much at the same stage in life that I am at as far as relationships go. So all in all I think what really matters is that you are both REALLY clear on what you want / what you expect from each other / and that you're at the same stage in life. __________________ "That's why you're the judge and I'm the law-talking guy." Lionel Hutz