Nice is associated with being a push over. A total turn off. I used to be a nice guy until my x from way back when cheated on me and then stabbed me. I stopped giving a shit about girls for a long time. Until I met my wife. We had known each other for a time but all of the sudden she found me uber hot. I just did not care. And cocky is different than confident as slimshadyee said. Good luck to ya buddy. Start caring more about the sex than the girl also. That helps.
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The mother of mankind, what time his pride
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