I realize that I have made a mistake in my original post and made myself sound like I actually know what’s good for other people. Obviously every one is unique when it comes to sexuality. So I have added a bit of a “disclaimer” to the third paragraph.
SecretMethod70 and Hrothgar,
Absolutely true. I realize that there is a natural physical response involved when it comes to the lost of erection and lust after orgasm. Yet in the past I used to be able to keep my erection for a limited amount of time after ejaculating. More so I used to have no trouble staying active and regaining my refection a five minutes later. Over the years this stopped. I know that the reason this was happening to me was because of all the things I have mentioned above. There was hardly any emotional base to my sexual act and it was driven mainly by habit. Now I am almost back to my formal glory