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resolutions
wondering how people generally do on resolutions. i'm not talking about the ones that most of us make every new year's, like losing weight, and stop following through by the end of january...though, if you have gotten healthier for over a year, then power to you..
i'm talking about seriously changing your life...mine would be from high school to my second semester of first year of college...in high school, i was pretty anti-social, had only 3 or 4 friends total at the end of hs..though i was polite, and generally well liked by everyone..same thing first semester of college..something damn shitty happend over my winter break, which coincided with new year's i suppose, and i resolved to be more outgoing, and now a couple years later a lot of people think i'm the most outgoing person they know..however, i've never managed to follow through weight lifting resolutions, max i've held through is 3 straight months, with good results of 10 lbs gain, and then i just quit like most people do, now i jstu play basketball and tennis
so, i was wondering, do most serious changes & resolutions occur after a major event (generally negative)? have people managed to make serious changes just like that while sticking to it? just curious
*aplogize ahead of time if this isn't the place for this post, or its been done b4, did search a bit for older post, pretty new around here*
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