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I don't seem to be doing very well in the relationship department, and I tend to use that as an excuse to masturbate often. For me it's become less of a pleasurable experience and more of a habit, which is definitely on the wrong side of how things should be. Right now I'm in college as an engineering major, so masturbation isn't really unexpected.
The problem as I see it is that I think my body is becoming TOO used to the feeling, and that's not good. I love making my partner (rare though they are) feel very good, but when reciprocation comes around I am typically frustrated. I think a lot of it is a result of inexperience and uncertainty with my partner, but it may also be because my body is conditioned.
Your post has made me think a lot about what I'm doing to myself and my body. Maybe it's time to adjust things a bit.
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