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I think lurkette hit the nail on the head.

You're in an abusive relationship. I don't care if it's family or not. Abuse is abuse. I understand your desire to be in her life, but enough is enough.

My grandmother (whom I lived with from 7th grade till I moved out for college) is bi-polar and manic depressive. I understand completely what it's like to simply hate seeing a relitave. She would scream and yell at me for stupid things till I would leave and go for hour+ long walks while I cried... just to get away from her.

I agree with lurkette in thinking you should do your laundry elsewhere. Depending on how many loads you do a month, it might be cheaper to rent a washer and drier somewhere.

I know you love your sister, but it's best for you to get out of the sitution.

Be sure you tell your parents how you feel so they won't think your upset with them also.

Good luck, I'll be praying for ya.