Word bud,
when I was 28, I was a fairly decent looking, well-dressed guy, making a fair bit of money and have a lot of friends, no steady girlfriend but was able to get laid quite a bit, was never worried about meeting the right person cuz I didn't think I need to, I was finanically secured and didn't need some chick bitching at me like she has a right to.
went past 30 no problem, at 35 I met this woman who was practically godsend.
today I have two little devils who likes Hilary Duff and wants to go to ballet school
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Originally posted by brknkybrd
Anyone else here take a good long time before their first girlfriend / boyfriend?
I did! My 28th birthday was in June, and my first girfriend came into my life just this month. Took a while -- most of my friends met someone way back in high school, or at least university / college.
Do I care? I used to -- I got angry, bitter, and said all sorts of horrible things about myself. Then, I stopped taking things so seriously, and allowed myself not to compare, worry, or complain.
So no, I don't care that it took me longer! Was it worth the wait?
You better believe it.
So, the best advice I can give the perpetually single is this -- the longer it takes you, the better it is when it finds you. So take your time, smile at people, don't go looking for a mate in every single mildly attractive member of the opposite (or same) gender. You can afford to be picky.
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