If you are working full time, the general rule of thumb is that the ring costs the equivelent of two months salary. It's an investment. Diamonds do not go down in value (as long as it's a good stone)
It's risky buying a diamond online -- you really need to go to a jeweler (and not a place in the mall) one who will give you an appraisal certificate as to the stone's value, as well as the diamond's certifications. You can get a piece of crap stone for 1000 dollars or you can get a beautiful stone for a 1000 dollars.
If you're near a major metropolitan area, take a picture of the ring she wants, and head to the diamond district. Custom made rings aren't that badly priced.
Remember this is FOREVER, don't do it because she wants you do, do it because you want to do it.
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