Personally, I think your fiance should get real. If she wants a good life, she shouldn't want to waste a TON of money on a huge rock she can flash around on her finger. [/rant]
Okay, seriously, I think you should talk to her about your problem. If she is ready for marriage, she'll be able to compromise. Promise her a big pretty ring when you're able to pay for it. But for now, you guys are just trying to get out in the world...that's not the best time to blow a bunch of money and any financially sane person should know that.
Sorry...I know that didn't help. Just talk to her. KEEP talking to her. And Good Luck.
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