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Weezil · 07-19-2004, 05:20 PM

Ok, here's a quick question to probably the ladies but for the more astute men out there, too.

I know that avoidance and communication lapses are signs of disinterest but can they also be a sign of an individual who is scared? Scared in the fact that their past relationships have been really bad and they are now faced with someone who they say meets all of their expectations and criteria. Scared that they don't want to screw things up or get hurt? Scared that things might not be as good as they hope?

Thoughts?

07-19-2004, 05:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
Weezil Tilted Location: Deep in Jersey	Quick question about silence in a budding relationship Ok, here's a quick question to probably the ladies but for the more astute men out there, too. I know that avoidance and communication lapses are signs of disinterest but can they also be a sign of an individual who is scared? Scared in the fact that their past relationships have been really bad and they are now faced with someone who they say meets all of their expectations and criteria. Scared that they don't want to screw things up or get hurt? Scared that things might not be as good as they hope? Thoughts?