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Originally posted by Trisk
I didn't wait too long and this might be stupid to ask...but weren't you guys sort of scared to go into a relationship with so little experience?
At 16, I was terrified that I was going to be a bad kisser and thought that if I didn't get some experience before 17, I wouldn't be able to keep any guys because they would be disgusted by my horrible kissing.
I think it's sort of funny now...but I'm curious as to whether any of you dealt with any of those fears (which, perhaps, stopped you from getting into relationships before you did)?
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See if you ask me, that pretty much encapsulates the reason it takes so long for some guys (and though I'm prepared to accept this is a universal thing, I think women have it easier than guys in this respect) that the lack of action becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy and it gets harder and harder to break.
Oh yeah, I was 21.