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i think there are two different "nice guys".
the first being the nice guy that will say/do whatever the girl wants because he has no confidence in himself and seems kind of desperate.
the second being the nice guy who does what he wants and speaks his mind because he is confident and knows he doesnt need the girl.
so if your the no spine type nice guy you just need to grow some balls and start being yourself regardless of what the oposite sex thinks. you're only kidding yourself in the long run if you are being a nice guy because you lack confidence and you think the oposite sex will "like" you more if you act this way.
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