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asudevil83 · 07-19-2004, 01:20 AM

i think i am one of those guys who is just plain too nice. it makes absolutely no sense, and its kinda disheartening.

we all know that in most cases nice guys finish last when it comes to getting the girls. its always the bad boy who gets the action. you could have me, an attractive fun NICE guy, and stand me up to a COCKY bad boy who is half as attractive and who would the majority of the girls pick? i'll give you a hint....NOT ME. WHY? girls have their reasons. and i have to admit that guys do follow the same rules.

but in thinking about this, i have come up with a pretty fucking big dilema. it seems that the obvious thing to do would be to change the image that people have of me. how can i do that?

first of all, I AM A NICE GUY. i dont act like a nice guy, i just am. is it wrong to not be who i am just to get some ass?

second of all, i cannot see myself any different than i am. i dont know how to be the cocky kind of guy. and if i were to manage to be the bad boy, the nice guy in me would always be in the back of my mind asking "is this who i am?" and telling myself that this isnt right. i would see myself as "selling out." musicians do it for the money, and i would be doing the same thing for the pussy.

so i ask you, WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO? am i stuck, forever to be that nice guy who everyone loves (as a friend) while others are out there getting laid?
how the hell do you convey the cocky badboy image?
and most importantly, how would you look at a friend who did this?

07-19-2004, 01:20 AM	#1 (permalink)
asudevil83 Psycho Location: Scottsdale, AZ	Too Nice? i think i am one of those guys who is just plain too nice. it makes absolutely no sense, and its kinda disheartening. we all know that in most cases nice guys finish last when it comes to getting the girls. its always the bad boy who gets the action. you could have me, an attractive fun NICE guy, and stand me up to a COCKY bad boy who is half as attractive and who would the majority of the girls pick? i'll give you a hint....NOT ME. WHY? girls have their reasons. and i have to admit that guys do follow the same rules. but in thinking about this, i have come up with a pretty fucking big dilema. it seems that the obvious thing to do would be to change the image that people have of me. how can i do that? first of all, I AM A NICE GUY. i dont act like a nice guy, i just am. is it wrong to not be who i am just to get some ass? second of all, i cannot see myself any different than i am. i dont know how to be the cocky kind of guy. and if i were to manage to be the bad boy, the nice guy in me would always be in the back of my mind asking "is this who i am?" and telling myself that this isnt right. i would see myself as "selling out." musicians do it for the money, and i would be doing the same thing for the pussy. so i ask you, WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO? am i stuck, forever to be that nice guy who everyone loves (as a friend) while others are out there getting laid? how the hell do you convey the cocky badboy image? and most importantly, how would you look at a friend who did this?