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I'm going through something similar right now.
I was with someone for nearly four years. I literally lost almost all of my friends and my entire family because of her. But, you know what? I'm probably better off for it.
The people that I lost are inconsequential. The few who still are in my life, those who still love me, are what are important. So, you don't have anything to do on a Friday night...big deal. Go out and find something. I'm being forced to be stuck at home - that might not be the case with you. Experience life, take a vacation, or just go find a hobby. Me, I spend my life at work. I don't enjoy it, but it's something to do.
Look at life as just a series of inevitable changes. It's not going to be good, all the time. However, it will eventually end up in a good pattern. And, finally, realize that the world will keep turning - wake up tomorrow, and it might be all better.
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"I've made only one mistake in my life. But I made it over and over and over. That was saying 'yes' when I meant 'no'. Forgive me."
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