Maybe to her moving in together is as big of a decision as marriage is for you. Maybe she's thinking that if you're not willing to entertain marriage that it's not in her best interest to move in with you and commit so much of her life to you. Does she want to have kids someday? If so, most people start feeling like that needs to start happening before or around 30. Since your don't want to be married by the time you're 30 and if she wants to have childern she maybe wondering if you two should take that next step in your relationship by moving in together. Like the others said I would talk to her and figure out what she wants for the future, what are her hopes and dreams, etc.
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