balefire88

i have tried to ask her about why she crushes on him..she's pretty vague on it...and she says she doesnt know a lot...that it jsut happened..

as for relationship problems, she says she's happy, if something happens that bugs/pisses her off, i can genearlly tell, and i get her to tell me, we have our share of problems, nothing major, just normal stuff, b4 this, i thought our relationship was better than most i'd seen among my friends..

its possible as finals drew closer, she saw less of me, and more of him, as they have classes together, and i'm in a different major, and a year ahead..but i always tried to make time for her, so i'm not sure how much of a factor that was

he does give her attention cause he likes her...but i try and do give her just as much and more..i think she once kidna said that he's just fun and easy to talk to, they think alike, and they work well together...she said she'd even partner with him for the toughest class of her major (soemthing like 20-30 hrs a week working together), but she mentioned this much earlier before this whole mess got started, i dont know if she still plans to....i'm not sure i'd wanan forbid her from that, it is a very tough class, and working together entails about 20-30 hours a week, and in our relationship, we have always said studies and work do come first..

i do trust her not to do anything, but i guess i'm thinking in terms of her making a move, if he made a move on her, like attempt to kiss her, i cant guarantee she'd push him off..i dont think anyone really can...ur partner is always an independant person...u just trust that they wuold firmly say no..

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