moving in seems like a big step...you see a lot of the person, day in and day out, and it prolly will either make or break a relationship pretty definitively..so, it might be she's worried that moving in will mess up what you already have..
she hasn't said no...i know uncertainity abuot her answer sucks, espeicaly in a long relationship..but if u pressure her a lot, she might either not wanna do it at all, or she might feel like she was forced into it...let her know that it is a serious issue, and u wanan discuss it as a couple, not just wait for her to decide whenever..
just my thoughts on it, i've got a friend going through a similar situation trying to move in with her bf, but i haven't been it myself...
good luck..
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