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hanging out with someone who is attracted to you can put yourself at a risk for cheating... especially if you're attracted to them as well! you never know if you can trust the guy not to make any moves.. but can you trust your girlfriend? can she trust herself not to make moves, or reciprocate if the other guy makes advances?
crushes in itself isn't cheating.. they are usually pretty harmless. it's when things start to come to action when it gets bad. be weary about this situation. have a talk with her about trust. tell her you have no way of trusting this guy and it makes it hard on you knowing that she hangs out with him and they live so much closer. just be honest. it's ok to feel these things.
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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
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