wow...did I ever get the bomb dropped on me. Here it is:
I've been seeing my gf for 4 years now...since university and now we both work fulltime. Well my gf is a teacher and she just gave up her apartment (we were living in separate apartments 20 mins away from each other).....cause it was expensive and cause she was going home to her parents house for the summer....which is 6 1/2 hours away. Now for about 6 months we've been talking about getting a place together....but had to wait till the end of the summer to see where she would be teaching. Well she found out she is teaching at the same place....but now told me last night she is unsure whether or not we should get a place together. We've had our little problems....mostly us not spending alot of time together and having different friends/interests.....we really don't have any mutual friends other than those from univeristy. She's a grade 6 teacher and I'm a businessman. So now what......she doesn't want to break up but is kinda confused to what she wants. She tells me that she wants to be married in 4 years....and I told her I honestly don't know if I will want to be married in 4 years.....cripes we're only 26. What to do now though....all I can think about is how she is unsure on our planned living arrangements.....and it's hard to figure anything serious out over the phone. She wants to just keep cahtting though like normal....and let me know what she decides. I can't get over this though....and don't think I will until I get an answer.......
what a shitty day.
