maleficent

Oh, gawd, where to start...

You seem to contradict yourself a lot.

You love her, you support her, she's pretty type A, but if she doesn't stop being type A, you might leave her. If she takes a medication to help her out with some of the anxiety she suffers from, you might leave her beacuse it might change her personality. If she loses the anxiety -- her personality DOES change. If you have had these conversations with her, you are adding to her anxiety.

I am about as Type A as a person can get, I'm also attempting to try meditation to help out with stress. It might be something to consider.

However, if you love her as you say you do, you really want her to do what's best for her, if that includes medication (and last I checked, only a doctor can prescribe anti-anxiety meds-- most good doctors won't even do that without talking to the patient first) then the medication is what's best for her.

Meditation would be my first suggestion
Yoga is a good relaxer, if you can.

If she's really high stress, with no relief, talking to a professional would be in her best interest to help her get a handle on anxiety.

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