maleficent

Ask yourself why you want to get back with her. Do you want a girlfriend? Or do you want THIS girl as your girlfriend?

She cheated. That's a pretty big negative. She also seems somewhat confused, that's also a negative. What are her postives. Do they outweigh the negatives? Does she make you happy?

If you do decide to get back together, you have to let the cheating go, otherwise it will always be in the back of your mind, that if she's 5 minutes late somewhere, it's because she's cheating, or if she's not home when she says she is, its because she's cheating. Is she worthy of that trust?

Take the vacation for what it is right now, two friends with a history together going away together. Enjoy yourself. No pressure for anything, just have fun. If you want to talk, then talk. Be honest with your feelings, and ask her to be honest with yours. I don't think it's possible for a person to promise to never cheat again, because no one knows what the future will hold, but at least promise to be honest with one another.

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