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Opiate · 05-07-2003, 04:38 AM

thnx for the advice guys...im thinking of joining the priesthood at the moment though... connect cable to the monestary and id be all set :P

Greg700: it will come to that, and im so scared of breaking one of their hearts : ( still pondering this one...i know if i choose the new girl my gf would be more shattered than the other way around though (as expected)....and saying not to hang around because i dont want to hurt her has made me think a lot....as i dont know how happy i will be in the future if i do stay...

Magpie0001: yes i do see a future with this new girl, we get along extrememly well.... she does know that i have a gf, i told her as soon as i realised she liked me....umm i dont know exactly how she feels about it, but i know she understands what im going through and shes said she'll back off until ive decided what to do. id say shed want me to leave my current one, that would be natural for her to think that, but she isnt and wouldnt push that.

Cynthetiq : good advice there, but i think out of all of this no matter which way it goes im only hurting myself....

Ganguro: she is great, extremely intelligent (beats me all the time but i give as good as i take), beautiful, understanding and heaps of fun.

Stilts: i think you are on the money with staying away from her. ive already commited to see her this friday but after that i wont have contact with her for a few days which will give me time to have a good think. its hard though as we met through a uni club and we are both regulars. your last two sentances make a lot of sence and i wonder if its true in this case.

anyway, thanks again for your advice. ive just told this new interest that we should force ourselves to hold back but im not going to kill the good friendship, so thats all we will be, just "friends". im not going to say anymore to the overseas gf as ive already ruined her trip enough from the little ive told her and thats the last thing i wanted. i think the best option is to wait, use the next month to ponder and sort things out, then when she gets back make a decision....

anyway sorry for the long windedness (is that a word?), typing this is helping me get a lot of thoughts straight....

05-07-2003, 04:38 AM	#7 (permalink)
Opiate Tilted Location: Melbourne	thnx for the advice guys...im thinking of joining the priesthood at the moment though... connect cable to the monestary and id be all set :P Greg700: it will come to that, and im so scared of breaking one of their hearts : ( still pondering this one...i know if i choose the new girl my gf would be more shattered than the other way around though (as expected)....and saying not to hang around because i dont want to hurt her has made me think a lot....as i dont know how happy i will be in the future if i do stay... Magpie0001: yes i do see a future with this new girl, we get along extrememly well.... she does know that i have a gf, i told her as soon as i realised she liked me....umm i dont know exactly how she feels about it, but i know she understands what im going through and shes said she'll back off until ive decided what to do. id say shed want me to leave my current one, that would be natural for her to think that, but she isnt and wouldnt push that. Cynthetiq : good advice there, but i think out of all of this no matter which way it goes im only hurting myself.... Ganguro: she is great, extremely intelligent (beats me all the time but i give as good as i take), beautiful, understanding and heaps of fun. Stilts: i think you are on the money with staying away from her. ive already commited to see her this friday but after that i wont have contact with her for a few days which will give me time to have a good think. its hard though as we met through a uni club and we are both regulars. your last two sentances make a lot of sence and i wonder if its true in this case. anyway, thanks again for your advice. ive just told this new interest that we should force ourselves to hold back but im not going to kill the good friendship, so thats all we will be, just "friends". im not going to say anymore to the overseas gf as ive already ruined her trip enough from the little ive told her and thats the last thing i wanted. i think the best option is to wait, use the next month to ponder and sort things out, then when she gets back make a decision.... anyway sorry for the long windedness (is that a word?), typing this is helping me get a lot of thoughts straight.... __________________ when i am king, you will be first against the wall...