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Okay, first of all don't go out partying just because she is. Don't make it a "well if she can do it then so can I, damnit" situation. That's NOT GOOD.
Second: Long distance relationships suck. They suck hard. Big time. That being said, I'm currently in one. Luckly it's not too bad. Just 6 1/2 hours by car. Could be worse. We do the best we can to make it work. It's early so it's still all hearts and flowers and I know that there will be rough spots ahead. Deal with that when it comes.
She sounds genuine. It's not like she said "I need space, and we shouldn't talk." She wants to continue to talk to her. So do that. Email, chat, talk on the phone. Keep the lines of communication open. And do just that, communicate. Don't just talk. For a long distance relationship to work you have to trust the other person. Right now you don't trust her much. So you either have to work past that or just move on.
How far away does she live? Can you easily get to eachother every so often? How long will it be until she gets back to your area?
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