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I don't think most women understand the male sexual drive. They just don't understand how a spontaneous blowjob can change a ho-drum day into a great one. They don't realise how wounded we can be when they deny us sex. I really think that if they could understand that then there would be a lot more happy guys walking around.
All you can do is talk to her. try to convince her how much sex means to you. You shouldn't try to make her have sex when she doesn't want to, but I don't think that a blowjob or handjob should be out of the question. I think her feelings of being used can be overcome with good communication from you. If you convince her to give you a blowjob, try snuggling afterward and spending some quality time with her. Tell her how good she makes you feel.
Also you shouldn't beat yourself up about how you feel. We all feel that way to a certain degree. Even if you had sex with 500 women before you got married you'd still wonder what it would be like with that hot new chick at work. Just don't let yourself become fixated with such thoughts.
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-Sheriff Bart (Blazing Saddles)
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