The kids are young. They'll bounce back fine, especially if your involved with them heavily after the divorce.
If you want to leave your wife, leave her. It's really that simple. To stay in a marriage where you 'feel alone' only screws you both out the time and effort it takes to maintain the relationship.
Being the child of divorced parents myself, I can attest to the fact that a loveless marriage is just as bad for the kids. If you were to stay around a few more years, your kids will catch on. Kids have the amazing ability to see through bullshit. They'll catch you everytime.
And last, but not least. Don't leave your wife for another one. Leave your wife, because you need to, not at the behest of of another relationship already lined up.
Good luck to you, either way
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