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Hey, your girl is the way she is, and you shouldn't try and change her. But you are totally normal in thinking what you think. I have a good girl for the most part too, but I am slowly " working her over" in a way so that she becomes more comfortable with the kinky things I like. Yes, sex with diff. women is diff. That is the way it is. But when it comes to sex, people are often who they are and unwilling to change because when people don't like a certain sex act (say anal) it is very hard to just get them up to trying it. But, that notwithstanding, each partner should learn how to please the other, sex is not a selfish act, unless you are masturbating, and taking joy in pleasing the other means maybe doing things one isn't entirely enjoying, but when it makes the other person uncomfortable, then it should not happen.
So what I am saying is that there has to be some middle ground, maybe you can just explain to her how you are feeling and tell her that you do all that "warming up" for her, and this pleases you but mainly it is for her. You could say that the street goes both ways and maybe sometimes a quickie would be enjoyable for you. If she is not willing to compromise, it is not because the act itself may disgust her (like anal to some women) rather she is unwilling to compromise and please you yet you are willing to do for her.
That is my 2 cents.
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That is my 2 cents.
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