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i wouldn't freak the gf out necessarily just yet. you don't have anything to tell her but maybes. maybes that are gonna run through her mind and haunt her with questions you don't have the answers to. she's going to go through a huge range of feelings from hurt, anger, frustration, who knows what.
first thing's first. protect yourself with information. this means confirmation with DNA results, as well legal advice. THEN you can tell your gf when you know for sure.
how did you feel when you found out there's a possbility that you have a child out there somewhere? but not even positive, just the mere uncertainty? doesn't it drive you nuts to NOT KNOW? why would you put your girlfriend through that.
if she even suspects though, you might as well come out and say it. if she knows it has to do with your promiscous sex life, and that it's come back to bite you in the ass, she's going to suspect the worse.
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