Prince

This may be one of those questions that doesn't really have a good answer...but I feel like I really want to ask, anyway.

I'm 27, and have been happily married for a year. Thing is, I've only ever had sexual relations with one woman - my wife - and at times this bothers me a bit. And I don't really know why...perhaps because when it comes to sex, she isn't as interested in experimentation and, well, lewdness. So now and again I find myself almost wishing I had had more sexual experience prior to finding her and marrying her, just so I would not feel...meh, I don't really know how to describe it. I mean, I love my wife more than anything or anyone. This isn't about love, it's about sex.

Sometimes, maybe because I'm a selfish, dumb male, I don't really want to make love... I just want to fuck. I just want to pull her panties down, press her against the kitchen table, and shove it in. Or just have her unzip my pants out of the blue and suck me dry. I'd satisfy her even if I weren't in the mood, but she's always said she wouldn't feel comfortable just simply giving me a blowjob or something unless she got off too...because she would feel "used". This type of spontaneous nookie isn't her thing, never has been, and I don't see her ever even considering allowing it to happen. She wants the whole deal... sweet nothings, slow lead-up, you know the drill. And most of the time, I enjoy that immensely, too, but then there are times when I wish I could just jump into action, so to speak.

This didn't use to be an issue, but with the both of us working crazy schedules now, we don't have much time, or energy, for sexual encounters that require a lot of "pre-heating". She seems happy with it, having sex once a week (which is what it's down to now). But I'm not... To make matters worse, I get off from work in the early afternoon, she gets off later in the evening, and oftentimes I will end up feeling like I'd actually prefer to just jack off in the afternoon right after work, get that instant, quick relief that I need and have energy for, rather than wait for hours for something that either won't be happening anyway, or I won't have energy for.

All this obviously renders me selfish, a typical heartless bastard of a man, and ya know what, I'm fine with that. I'm too exhausted emotionally to really care... The thing is, that this trend in my sex life has left me wondering, more often than not, whether this is what sex life is like when you get close to 30 and are married and whatnot. I guess my question, the one that follows, is directed mainly to male members of the forums, because they are more likely to be able to relate. How different IS sex with different women? Have you ever had sexual encounters with women that enjoy sporadic quickies?

I'm not interested in sex with other women. Ok, let me be more specific... I live in a college town, and see some fine pieces of ass all the time, and I may go like "oooh man, I'd luvta...", but that's as far as it'll go. Period. I guess deep down I am hoping that someone will tell me that this is what sex life is, always has been, will be and should be about, and I am not missing out on anything.

Hell, I'll make a poll for this as well...just for shits 'n giggles.

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