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Originally posted by fallenangel
I thought of doing that, to try and get me over my ex, because i've been having a tough time with it. But i do'nt know if i can bear to cut ties completely. My situation is a tad difficult...
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Fallen,
I was sort of put in this position involuntarily , but the guy had the right idea.... when we're not in the situation anymore, the good times seem to shine brighter, and having things that remind you more often of those times make it harder to let go. Over time, I ended up removing just about everything from my life that involved my ex in a romantic way.... it took me almost a year and a half to make it to my email inbox and click delete on the many emails we exchanged. Some days I regret it when I need something as a "pick me up", but it has made it easier to focus on a friendship with the guy, since that is all I have around me.