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your emotions are probably clouding your judgement. it's incredibly easy to start shaping things into a pre-defined notion in your mind.
from the sounds of it i would agree that she just called to say hi. i know it's hard to draw the line at what signs are real and what are probably wishful thinking, but this seems to be way closer to wishful thinking. unless she asked what you were wearing or something.
exploring your feelings like jRuntlets mentioned is a good idea. i mean, the falling-in-love-with-the-friend scenario is tricky because you're threatening one friendship, but this is threatening two very close ones. before you make any sort of move, you owe it to yourself to make absolutely certain what your feelings are. if it's just a crush or you just miss her as a friend- that's not something to go nuts about. but if this is one of those once-in-a-lifetime-and-full-of-regret-otherwise moments, you might have more cause for concern.
i know what it's like to like a girl and have your mind warp all sorts of reality around any interaction with her. "oh man she called." "wait she touched my arm, what does that mean?" "she got me a card, hmmm does she care as a friend or as more" "is she flirting with me right now, or are we just comfortable friends?" "she invited me over!! what does it mean!!"
the point is your mind WILL play tricks on you, so just be careful.
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