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Old 07-06-2004, 08:46 PM   #1 (permalink)
Shifter59
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Location: Bellingham, WA
Past fuckbuddy possibly pregnant, how do i tell new gf?

OK so here's the deal, and to be honest I've never actually posted in this forum, only read and helped out other people.....so give me your honest opinion.........

A few months ago I was having regular sex with a certain girl, let's call her A. Come to find out she is pregnant,(the pill isn't 100% effective, can i get an amen), any reasonable circumstance would suggest that this child is without a doubt mine. But here's where it gets sticky, a few people have told me that the pregnant one has told a few past boyfriends that it was theirs...now is this in fear that i wont talk to her? or is she trying to pick and choose who the father is? I am sligthly confused as i've never been in this situation before. I have moved to another state, and (no it wasn't because of this problem, it was already arranged when this happened, )
I am about 75% sure this child is mine, but it's not born yet, do i tell the new gf that I have now? Or do i wait till the child is born, or at least tested or we all end up on Jerry Springer in 12 years? I want my new gf to know everything about my life, including this possible horrible situation, I really love her......how do i tell her? should i tell her? and should i believe the one that's pregnant just cause she said it's mine?

thanks for any of your help, ask question is i confused any of you guys
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