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It seems to me, as a girl with lots of male friends, sort of like you're making a bit more of the situation than it is. I call up my guy friends just to say "hi", and nothing more than that. If you've been out of town she may have just caught wind that you were back and wanted to see what's up.
I don't want to bring you down here but like you said her boyfriend is like a brother to you. Do you really want to hurt that friendship? Are you in love... for sure?! If you don't hang out much you may just be missing the companionship of a friend that is female and mistaking it for love.
I've expirenced this with my best friend (male - I'm a girl) who was overseas for the millitary. I thought I was in love with him all the time he was gone. When we phoned and wrote I would get all cheesy and sappy, reading more into it than I should have. He came back, and now we hang out on a regular basis and I realize that I just missed him a whole lot and that my feelings have nothing to do with love as anything more than just a friend.
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