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Wow yeah... every girl is different. Tips and tricks are great for video games, not so good for sex.
If you aren't comfortable asking her, then you probably shouldn't be doing it at all. A lot of girls will be VERY impressed if you ask. Also, if you are a bit shy, or if she seems squeamish with the questions (don't ask too many all at once, that is a bit weird), just do some things and watch/listen/feel her reaction. Light moans and movements are good... wretching away or making "ack" noises are a bad sign.
Fingering her lets you stay closer and allows you to kiss and lick/suck/nibble her neck, ear and nipples. All of these are LIKELY to be good things. (nibble softly... they are sensitive). Giving her oral sex can be a tricky thing and is a case-by-case scenario. Some girls just don't like it. Often, if they don't, it's because they are nervous about something "down there". A lot of times a little coaxing and praising their genitals can go a long way towards making them enjoy it a lot more. Personally, giving my girl oral sex (which she seems to enjoy quite a bit) is a HUGE turn on for me as well. In that way, it's sort of a two-for-one deal. Everyone's happy! If you do give her oral, don't just dive right in. Lick and suck and kiss everywhere down there, her thighs, clit, and everything in between. Lightly blowing in areas where you've licked can give her a "cooling" sensation that can be very pleasurable. But, like I said, look for her "telltale" signs. If she starts writhing her hips and moaning, then you've hit the jackpot. Don't expect that, exactly, but if you find it... damn! Good job! LOL
Good sex comes from experimentation with your partner. The more you "play", the happier you'll both end up. Just be sure to ask her before doing anything seriously atypical... using toys, doing anal things, or anything she might STRONGLY object to. No need to piss her off!
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