doodah

ok so me and my girl we do the foreplay thing and i dont know what are some foreplay ideas you people have.....


also... on eating her out or using my hand down there... what are some ideas you got for pleasing her....

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wilbjammin

Ask her.

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Gamer90

Okay heres some tips while licking her clit and massaging it with one hand take the other hand and insert 1 finger then 2 then 3 if she wants and twirl it around inside her, blow on her belly button and on her clit with little short hot breaths.

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ratbastid

Try dangling from the chandelier, spanking her clit with fur from a wild yak, and rubbing her down with seasoning and herbs. While crooning.

Seriously, there aren't any "tricks" or "tips" that will get you very far. Explore with her. Ask her what she likes. Try some things and see what she responds to. Mainly, just pay attention.

(Edit: This will, unfortunately, require admitting that you're not a sexual god. Sorry about that and all, but you can thank me later.)

Peetster

Brilliant. What he said.

Also, learn to spell it O-R-G-A-S-M.

absorbentishe

"Honey, what feels good?" That would be a start, after that, just experiment, buy some toys.

anti fishstick

suck her nipples.

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ShaniFaye

This is the PRIME time for you to learn that all women like different things....just because woman a likes something doesnt mean woman b will. Your best bet is to #1 ask her #2 listen to her #3 listen to her AGAIN...if she tells you that she's not enjoying something...or could you do it a little differently pay attention to that.

There is nothing I hated more than trying to convice a guy "who thought he was gods gift to eating pussy" that I didnt enjoy the way he was doing it...it always meant there was something wrong with ME. (in his opinion)

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repeater

i don't know.. maybe he's actually going after an orgasam.. maybe it's like some super orgasm that only a few people know about yet

fhqwhgads

Please realize that he's joking. Do not attempt this.

Use polar bear fur. Yak hair chaffs.

Redlemon

One of the best "learning experiences" I've had was to ask my GF to masturbate for me, using my hand. Basically, she held my fingers and chose the tempo and pressure by herself.

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mystmarimatt

Well, OBVIOUSLY. There's no other way to go about it.

Like others have said. Listen to her. Ask. There's no universal standard when it comes to sex, we all like different things.

Except seasoning and herbs. You can never go wrong with them.

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Acetylene

I'd say you need to find out whether she likes or even needs her g-spot to be touched. I know girls who don't even need penetration at all, and then I know others (me) who can't possibly get off without good firm g-spot stimulation.

Good ways to find out include asking, but she might not know herself. You can also just keep shifting around and trying things until she moans, if she's the vocal type. If you have a girl who doesn't know what she likes AND won't make a peep, well, may god have mercy on your soul :P

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ratbastid

Just don't leave out the crooning. It's important to set the tone.

pinkie

Yes!!! Agreed.

Quote:

There is nothing I hated more than trying to convice a guy "who thought he was gods gift to eating pussy" that I didnt enjoy the way he was doing it...it always meant there was something wrong with ME. (in his opinion)

Again, I totally agree. All girls are different/like different things. The only way to find out how to please her is to:

A) Want to.

B) Want to enough to ask her what she likes, and accept when she says it's not doing it for her.

C) Never give up.

Once you find "Her Way" you'll be so glad you did.

pinkie

Tip:

Stay on the clitoris!!! If you get bucked off, get right back on. Don't forget to dip into the nether areas every once and a while too though.

SinisterMotives

In general, I agree with all of those who say to ask her what she likes. That said, here's a little "trick" that works:

Insert your index finger about an inch into her vagina with the knuckle towards the rear. Now bend the finger forward. You'll feel a little rough place that feels like a scar. That's her G-spot. Rub it with your fingertip while you lick her clitoris. It'll drive her insane.

jayman2004

underside of the tit works wonders

wonderwench

I suggest learning the Venus Butterfly technique.

SinisterMotives

Here's one an ex-girlfriend taught me. I'm not sure what it does for the girl, but it helps the guy go longer and gives you an extraordinary sensation. I'd imagine it does the same thing for the girl.

During intercourse, tell your partner to breathe into your mouth. Lock your lips around hers to prevent outside air from getting in and keep exchanging the same breath with her as long as you can without breaking off for fresh air.

double

Learn to talk to each other and be honest about what feels good and what does'nt. Be honest about what turns you on and you two can have really fun times together.

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ibis

That's called autoerotic asphyxiation. A good friend of mine died from it. Beware, don't listen to this advice.

In fact, I think the mods might want to delete it.

Go here for more info:
http://members.aol.com/bj022038/AEA.htm

SinisterMotives

I wasn't suggesting that he strangle himself or his partner. There's no danger of being accidentally deprived of oxygen using this technique. You just turn your head away and breath deeply as needed. I'm sure most people have enough sense to know when they need to come up for air.

bermuDa

part of the problem with any type of erotic asphyxiation is the push to go farther each time, which can result in death or serious injury. I would avoid this "technique" for my own sake and the sake of my partner. There are other better ways of getting off.

Also, "autoerotic" means masturbation. While the method sinister mentioned does involve asphyxia, i don't think it counts as autoerotic.

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SinisterMotives

That's more a matter of whether one is a daredevil thrill seeker than of whether the technique itself is dangerous. I've never felt the need to "take it to the next level", so to speak. For that matter, I've never used it throughout an entire lovemaking session either. One or two rounds usually suffices, after which normal heavy breathing carries it the rest of the way.

I was going to point that out myself, but then I thought nah, forget it.

BermuDa, thanks for taking the time to present a well-thought-out view on the subject instead of suggesting that it be swept under the rug simply because you disagree.

I think everyone reading this is mature enough to weigh the risks and decide for themselves whether it's something they would try. As stated, I've personally never been inclined to take it so far as to cause injury to myself or my partner; nor would I recommend it as a complete substitute for a well-rounded set of lovemaking skills.

creon

this stuff is the greates!

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SinisterMotives

Whatchoo talkin' about, Willis?

iamtheone

Umm.

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iamtheone

and of course, you throw in some thumb action on your other hand. Guaranteed to please!

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MadMartigan

whatever you do, make sure you wash your hands first, especially if you have been eating hot wings...... Made that mistake once and it was a long time before i was allowed down there again

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Peetster

Five days and he hasn't been back to his thread.

It was a drive-by question.

SinisterMotives

Maybe he's too busy practicing what we taught him.

doodah

thanks for all the info and stuff... im going to jsut ask her and see what comes out of it....

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iamtheone

Good Luck, hopefully something "comes" out of it.

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xepherys

Wow yeah... every girl is different. Tips and tricks are great for video games, not so good for sex.

If you aren't comfortable asking her, then you probably shouldn't be doing it at all. A lot of girls will be VERY impressed if you ask. Also, if you are a bit shy, or if she seems squeamish with the questions (don't ask too many all at once, that is a bit weird), just do some things and watch/listen/feel her reaction. Light moans and movements are good... wretching away or making "ack" noises are a bad sign.

Fingering her lets you stay closer and allows you to kiss and lick/suck/nibble her neck, ear and nipples. All of these are LIKELY to be good things. (nibble softly... they are sensitive). Giving her oral sex can be a tricky thing and is a case-by-case scenario. Some girls just don't like it. Often, if they don't, it's because they are nervous about something "down there". A lot of times a little coaxing and praising their genitals can go a long way towards making them enjoy it a lot more. Personally, giving my girl oral sex (which she seems to enjoy quite a bit) is a HUGE turn on for me as well. In that way, it's sort of a two-for-one deal. Everyone's happy! If you do give her oral, don't just dive right in. Lick and suck and kiss everywhere down there, her thighs, clit, and everything in between. Lightly blowing in areas where you've licked can give her a "cooling" sensation that can be very pleasurable. But, like I said, look for her "telltale" signs. If she starts writhing her hips and moaning, then you've hit the jackpot. Don't expect that, exactly, but if you find it... damn! Good job! LOL

Good sex comes from experimentation with your partner. The more you "play", the happier you'll both end up. Just be sure to ask her before doing anything seriously atypical... using toys, doing anal things, or anything she might STRONGLY object to. No need to piss her off!