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Old 07-05-2004, 12:23 AM   #1 (permalink)
jmad
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Location: Wisconsin, eh?
Can a hook-up become something more?

All right, this is the first threat I've started, so if you guys could give me all the advice/experiences you could, I would be forever grateful(and keep you guys posted about how it goes)

Situation: A bunch of friends came to my house the other night for a small party(20 or so people), and brought a few people I didn't know. They brought this cute brunette, and we hit it off early in the night. I talked to her a lot, and was keeping her laughing. I think I even impressed her when a random guy walks in and trys to fill up a beer cup, and I kicked him out straightaway. So we play drinking games for a while, then the group of people I didn't know went to get food while my guy friends and I go grab a few more drinks at the bar. We meet up with everyone at the girls' apartment(the ones I met that night), have a few more drinks with the guys and watch TV. She doesn't live at this apartment, and her's is far away, so she was sleeping there for the night. I continue talking to this girl and we're having a good time. Soon, the place empties out, and the girl and I are still talking quietly to each other(the only other people in the room is another couple sleeping on the sofa next to us). We start kissing and she's worried about the people next to us waking up, so we take it to the porch. After a little while we decide to call it a night and share a couch to sleep on. We fool around for a little while longer then goto sleep. The next morning we hug, I get her phone number, and me and a buddy(who had hooked up with a different girl that lived there) took the walk of shame back to our respective houses.

My problem: Random hookups like this have happened in the past, where I definately made a connection with a girl, then totally wussed out(figuring it would be weird) and never called them back. We were drinking, but it definately wasn't a drunk thing(believe me on this one, I've experienced plenty of those). I have a lot of free time on my hands because school's out, and i'm working part time, and would like to pursue this and see where it goes. However, I'm afraid to call her because it might get weird. What do you think I should do?
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