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So the second date went well too, but...
We went to a bar and played pool (and I did have a few drinks but not enough to be drunk), we got on really well again - I made her laugh a lot and she made me smile a lot... but my question is just, how does one move thing on to be more intimate in a physical sense?
I dont want to sound crass, and I probably do anyway. but I mean I do fancy her quite a lot, but its not like Im just going to jump on her, what is supposed to be done? I have only actually really dated two girls before and both of them I knew really well before we even dated and things were just natura;. With kate, this girl, I have only known her since last week. At the end of the dates she has kisse dme on the side of the mouth, and no more, and she leans against me and stuff like that, but nothing really intimate seems like it will happen, I havent even kissed her properly, and I mean I am a little scared just to try it because what if she doesnt want me too?
Obv you cant just discuss it cos it would be impolite, my most natural tactic would be to just wait for her to make every move, because I am too nervous to, but if she feels the same as me it would take forever! We are going to the pictures next week, I think we will see "Mean Girls" so maybe I can try the yawning and then putting my arm around her trick? I mean, i would do it in an ironic way, but it would be nice too... I dont know what to do honestly, we get on really well and flirt a lot verbally and she leans against me and like plays with the buttons on my shirt and stuff, which is pretty sexy... but I dont want to just grab her and kiss her, because what if she didnt want me too? And I am just worried that if I just wait for her to do anything, she might think like I am not a man or I dont like her, and if I discus how I feel well I would just sound like more of an idiot even than I am. Sp what do I do? ???
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hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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