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Wait a minute folks--slow down. Calling the guy a prick and a loser is way outta bounds. We don't know enough about the situation to make those kind of judgements. He wants to move on and he has told guinnessgirl his intentions. That doesn't make him a bad person.
Questions:
1. How old are the two of you?
2. What kind of commitment was made to each other when you moved in together?
3. How long have you been together, and how long have you been living together?
It sounds to me like you two are young, and he now sees that you moved in together way too early. He wants to experience more of life, and he is telling you in the most gentle way he can. The truth is this kind of thing happens all the time to young couples who fail to see that the male half is not yet mature enough for a long term commitment. It hurts, but you will survive. Once you are over the pain, try to search for the lessons learned.
I am sorry for your pain. Really I am.
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Last edited by Aladdin Sane; 07-03-2004 at 05:48 AM..
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