I dated a woman very briefly (and you'll understand why in a second) who was a recovering codependent. One of the most glaring behavior patterns of someone who has recently discovered that they're codependent is that they attempt to compensate by swinging to the opposite extreme of acting very selfish. Such was the case with this person. Anytime I did her a favor, she disavowed any sense of gratitude. The event that finally made me ditch her was when I finger fucked her to orgasm and she didn't feel the least bit compelled to reciprocate. As always with her, the response was "I didn't ask you to." I told her later that night that I didn't think we should see each other anymore.
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